Beliefs feel mocked
Hey, im a christian girl, and my friend beliefs in lgbtq, but then she started to push that stuff in my face, and i have asked her politely to stop, she mocked my religion by pretending the cross burned down and i have asked her politely to stop, then a few weeks later she showed me a story that she made i read it and it had lgbtq in it, so i told her that i could not read it and she said, "oh its just those two parts," and i felt kinda disrespected. My parents said that she was kinda peer pressuring me, and i could see that, they told me next time she does that, i needed to stand my ground and stay firm, which i agree. What do you think? Do you agree on what my parents are saying?
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Hey, as a right leaning Hindu Republican myself, I get what you're saying. Yes, you are indeed being peer pressured into believing something you don't want to. Look, ultimately, it's you who gets to decide what you want or don't want to believe in, but faith is probably the strongest entity a human can experience, and if something or someone comes in its way, I encourage you to not interact with that disturbance. I support lesbian, gay and bisexual rights myself, but that doesn't mean I will demean someone who doesn't or coerce them into doing so. In fact, if someone is looking for support for their community or movement, they have to learn to give respect in order to earn it. Think over it and decide for yourself, not letting your friend or someone else do that for you.
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ok. number one: being Christian does not mean hating lgptq, no one has an excuse to be sexist, ableist, racist or homophobic. but if someone is being rude about your religion and you've told them to stop, first: consider their reasoning. I suspect your friend feels threatened by your beliefs, make it clear that you have accepted that their lgptq and are okay with that, but that you are not okay with how they are using that fact to insult your religion. do not try and force your beliefs on others but make it clear that they will not be able to change who you are and expect as much in return.
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You should distance yourself from here because I had that happen to me (it was trans people in my case), and I'm not like a crazy religious person, but I like to wear crosses, and once I distanced myself felt a lot better. So my advice is that if someone who is your friend doesn't respect you and your values, then they don't see you as just someone with different beliefs but rather just someone they just need to convince.
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Sweetie! okay, so this girl should be removed from your life, (if you wish) because this is toxic, mean girl behavior, my friend tried doing that to me, i cut her off (im Baptist and in high school) if she is pressuring you to look at things that dont follow your beleifs, Do not give in! stay stron in your faith! i beleive in you. :)
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ok hi this is an LGBTQ+ girl here but yeah that girl is being really toxic from what I read you shoudn't even talk to her this seems like a very toxic human
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